“Learn to keep secrets to avoid such situations”
We’re pretty sure that there isn’t a single man that exists who doesn’t like to brag every now and then. Men brag. That’s what we do, so when we end up meeting a beautiful woman that we’re seeing in addition to seeing our wives, we want to let our buddies know about her. It’s hard to describe the feeling that you get when you’re able to not only have one woman, but two, sometimes even more than two. The problem is, where bragging comes in, jealously is usually right behind it.
They’re Married, But Faithful
“Your friend told me everything”
When a married man finds out that his married friend is cheating, it will go one of three different ways, more likely than not. The first way is that he will be envious, but happy for you, and in the end he doesn’t really care. The second way is that he’ll want to know how you managed it, and will wonder if he should try cheating, too. He’ll probably still be a little jealous. The third way is that he will be jealous and pissed because you’re happy and he wants you to be as miserable as he is. This type of”friend” will go home and tell his wife that you are cheating. Women can never keep their mouths shut, so she will definitely find a way to contact your wife to tell her that you’ve been messing around on her. Hello drama.
If you happen to accidently let it slip that you’ve been seeing another woman, you will need to recover quickly. Tell your friends that you will introduce them to her. Do not put this off. If they’re ready to meet her tonight, take them. What you don’t want to do is actually take them to meet your other woman. Instead, take them to a car dealership and show them a car that you really like. Make them think you were joking the whole time. Tell them that you’re thinking about trading in your car and getting the other one, but you don’t want your wife to know because she’ll be mad. In other words, cover your ass.
Friends or not, guys are competitive. If you have a sexy woman on the side, you can be sure that they are going to try to find one sexier. Another thing you may have to deal with is that one of your so-called friends may try to blackmail you. They may get you to do everything from moving furniture to giving them money. You can never tell how awful someone can be until they have some dirt on you. It’s not pretty and it’s not fun. If you can avoid it, do so. You’ll be glad you did.
Friends can be great, and if you can trust them, you can tell them about the other women. However, you definitely want to make sure they are truly your friends before you tell them something that has the high potential of backfiring on you.