Any guy who’s ever cheated on his spouse knows that it takes some skill. There are so many ways to get caught. If you don’t want to ruin your marriage but you just need to spice up your boring or nonexistent sex life, having an affair is the way to go. The win-win cheating scenario is the one that has you hooking up with sexy women on the side and still maintaining your marriage. Managing that kind of scenario can be difficult. We’re not saying it’s impossible. We are saying that you should follow the tips we’ve put together for you that worked for us in the past.
Plan Ahead in Advance
We get it. When there’s a new woman in your life it’s exciting and you want to spend all your time with her. If keeping your marriage intact is one of your goals, however, spending all your time with the other woman isn’t an option. Throwing out excuses like a weekend business trip without any prior warning is going to make your wife suspicious. So plan ahead. Mention a business trip weekend well in advance. This makes it seem more believable. It also gives you time to arrange a weekend with the other woman.
Encourage Your Wife’s Interests
Maybe your wife is an avid golfer. Maybe she loves live theatre. Whatever her hobbies, make sure to encourage them. The weekends are the best times for her to enjoy these hobbies. And if she’s out enjoying them, it frees up time for you to continue your affair with the other woman. Just make sure not to seem too enthusiastic about your spouse’s pastimes. If she thinks you love it as much as she does she’s going to want you to come along.
Encourage Your Wife to Spend Time with Friends and Family
Every woman needs a night or two out with her friends. She’ll also need to spend time with her family. So if you want the wife out of the way so that you can be free to go about your cheating ways, encourage her to meet up with the girls or with family. Again, being too enthusiastic about it is a bad idea as you’ll look suspicious. If she brings up spending Friday or Saturday night out with her friends, tell her you’re okay with it. She’ll appreciate your openness. The same goes if she wants to spend a day or two with her mom, sister, or other family members.
Use Your Own Hobbies as an Excuse
If you play any kind of sport, you’ve got a premade cheating excuse for a weekend getaway. Tell your spouse about an away game or a training camp out of town that’s only for team members. Chances are she won’t want to go and will give you her blessing. From there you can call up your cheating partner and arrange a weekend you can spend together. There’s some risk involved with this in the event that your wife encounters one your team members. Having an affair is filled with risk, though, so all you can do is roll with it.