“It is not tough to get back to dating after your marriage”
Getting back into the dating scene after years of marriage is difficult for anyone, but it can be even more challenging if you’re still married and looking to have an affair. Even if you’ve only been married for a couple of years, it’s still long enough to significantly affect your dating game. The dating scene changes all the time in ways you don’t notice, so it can be jarring to hit the clubs and bars after being away from them for so long. Knowing what you need to keep in mind when you hit the dating scene will help you feel more confident and attract more women than any other guy.
Remembering How to Flirt
The days of flirting with your wife are probably long past if you’re seeking out an affair, so knowing how to flirt again can seem daunting. After all, your wife probably doesn’t get flustered if you compliment her anymore. You may feel like you don’t know what makes a good compliment any longer. When you approach a woman, remember to compliment her based on her appearance in a way that she isn’t likely to hear all the time. Try complimenting her hairstyle, outfit, eye color, or smile instead of her body in general. You can lay it on thicker if you really want to, but you have a higher chance of driving women off.
How to Fake Confidence You Don’t Feel
If you’re nervous about hitting the dating scene again, you cannot show it if you want to be successful. The real key to picking up women is to act like you’re highly confident, but not to the point of being arrogant. When you get out there and start meeting women, remind yourself that you already managed to have enough game to get a woman to marry you, whether the marriage is satisfying or not. You always have a backup plan if things don’t go well, so do not get into the mentality that it will be the end of the world if you get rejected. Being secure in yourself is the biggest step towards showing confidence. Women will always go for the confident guys over the shy guys, whether you like it or not. Wear your best clothes and favorite perfume to boost your confidence and get out there like you own the crowd.
Using Maturity to Your Advantage
“You are never too old to flirt”
If you’re meeting younger women, then you already know they get approached by young guys all the time. They’re probably sick and tired of immature guys, so use your age to your advantage. Treat her like a princess and forgo the slang, awkward advances, and terrible pickup lines that younger guys are likely to use on her. Don’t make her feel like a little girl. You want to treat her like a mature woman that you empathize with, since younger guys will treat her like she’s immature. Making her feel like she’s on equal footing with you can actually go a long way towards hooking up.