If you know a woman who’s really into you but is very reluctant to become the “other woman” you have your job cut out for you. There’s so much in society telling a woman not to get mixed up with a married man that it can be hard to get her to even seriously think about it. Once you know that you want her, though, you have to find a way to get through to her. These are some approaches that actually work when it comes to convincing a woman to do what she really wants and have an affair with you.
She’s Your Special Secret
Women like to feel like they’re the most unique people in the world. If you appeal to that part of her ego you have a much better shot at getting her to accept the fact that she can only be your mistress. Instead of painting the portrait of how it’s going to be, tell her that you’re her truest admirer. You like her so much that you’re willing to risk all sorts of things just to be with her. Whether you’re looking for an emotional connection with this woman or not, you can be assured that feeling like the true center of your universe is going to keep her coming back for more.
Making the Best of Things
Sometimes you have to make the best of a bad situation. Sure, you’d like to be free and clear so you could be with your mistress and no one else (note: this doesn’t have to be true. This is just the story you tell her to get her attention), but that’s not the reality you live in right now. Maybe one day, things will be different. You don’t have to mean that, but it’s exactly what a woman wants to hear. If meeting on your lunch break twice a week is the best that you two can have together, then isn’t it better that you take that instead of nothing? The way to play this is to act as though your hands are tied. There’s nothing you could do to change the situation so you’ll just have to play the hand you’ve been dealt.
Something Is Better than Nothing
When all else fails it’s time to play hardball with your reluctant mistress. Make the case that having some time together is better than having nothing. Those are her only two choices; you’re not going to leave your wife or steady girlfriend, and you do want to be with her. This is just the way that it has to be. She can either accept it or you can’t see her anymore. Make it clear that you’re the one making the offer here. There’s no renegotiating terms, there’s nothing. She has to choose to leave you or to stay with you. She might choose to leave you. That always sucks, but the fact is that there’s even more fish in the sea when you’re committed. Lots of ladies are looking to cheat as well, and if your mistress ends things at lunch you should be on a cheater dating site finding a new sweetheart by dinner time. The point of having a mistress at all is to have fun with someone who doesn’t mean as much to you.